rabbitcreative said:
No, not giving up yet... but I would like someone to give me answers to my questions so I can properly enjoy a good ride.
Then get your spanners and screwdrivers out and give it a twiddle. Only you know how you want the bike to behave (and it ain't ever gonna behave like a ducati, let me make that clear now. For one thing it'll start reliably...).
First off you need to find out what you have currently. Get yourself a pen and paper and write down what settings the bike has now (wind each damping adjuster in clockwise and count the clicks or turns, record it on paper, then wind them back out again). Check how much preload you have front and rear (best to have a user manual handy, I can't remember the stock settings myself).
Then, once you've got your settings written down you can start to make changes. Some people say make small changes, one click at a time. I say make big changes, so that you can actually feel what's going on. Let's start with rear rebound, as this is most likely to be your problem area. Turn the rebound adjuster fully anti-clockwise and go for a gentle ride - you should be able to feel a marked difference in ride quality. Then turn it back to the original setting. Do the same with compression damping then preload, always going back to your original setting each time. Then do the same with the front suspension.
Now you are starting to understand how each adjustment feels and how the bike reacts to it.
Go back and start again, this time making smaller adjustments to make the bike suit you. Take it one step at a time. As you're 95kg you shouldn't need to make huge changes.
This all takes time, obviously. If you don't feel you have the time then take it to a professional and get them to do it for you. It won't cost a king's ransom. Generally, Italian manufacturers always set up their bikes too firm, so it's likely you'll have to soften up the settings. But as you haven't mentioned what type of riding and what type of roads you use, we cannot guess at how to set it up for you.
Seriously, have a go yourself, it isn't hard at all, it just takes patience.
Or buy a Duc (which will aslo need it's suspension setting up...).